Have you ever love and hate a person at the same time? I have all my life.
I don't understand why she lets bitterness overcome her.
Why she is so jealous of her sis in law and yet at the same time wants to be like her.
Why she doesn't see her action will cause her children to distance themselves from her.
Doesn't she understand that love will grow cold and indifference will starts and soon the heart will harden and love won't be there anymore when she takes out the bitterness on her sis in law to her children? Actions do speak louder than words. Her mouth says no but her actions say yes loud and clear.
Her children works and just want to come back to work to unwind, relax and recharge before going back to work the next day. Is that too much to ask?
What is so bad about using the car to fetch her sister in law and her family to airport? When we go to the airport, her bro in law also fetch us to the airport. Why use the slipper and beat on the floor and mumbling whatever like those 'sam pat poh' in the street?
The children has reason, cajole, explain, shouted, thrown tantrum to make her understand that her action is making them unable to stand her not any negative words from her sis in law.
But she still thinks it is negative words from her sis in law that warrant the distancing of her children from her. No reasoning with her because her mind is made up. So all the children can do is go out till late at night and come home just to sleep or come home and lock themselves in the room in order to be able to continue to love her just because she is mother. Damn pathetic life!
The daughter wishes she can die early like her dad so as not to endure this torture from the mother.
Daughter also worry for the brother safety as he is always on the road and high blood pressure wants to come and live with him. No thanks to the mother.
